Recording your very own sex tape. Have you? Will you? Do you care if you’re recorded?
Controversy always surrounds leaked sex tapes the latest one being well known socialite yesjulz. It sucks when you become famous, because your sacred things are the most sought after. She did something most people do with their partner and now it can either be the downfall of her “famedom” or a new rise (I.e KimK).
I never ever wanted to be recorded having sex simply because I think of it as an intimate moment that should just be between you and the other person(s) involved. You should be in the moment and not be worried about what you look like on camera, or even actually having to hold the camera! Plus I can’t stand the sound of my own voice so I’d probably hate the sound of my moans and screams even more! Lol
This was all up until I was recorded and saw the footage and was hella impressed…. with myself! Hahaha I mean seriously, I watched it over and over because I didn’t know I looked like that doing what I do. But I digress… oh and note- I totally hated the way I sound but it wasn’t as excruciating as I imagined. I must admit it wasn’t a full on sex tape where a camera was set up on a tripod and angled at the perfect position to get the whole bed in the shot. But the minute and a half, shaky, iPhone quality video did it for me. And quite frankly I don’t think I want to make a full on tape!
Snippets are dope… And just enough to make you want more… And I’m all about that.
Fair warning however, recording isn’t something that should be done spontaneously, this should be discussed prior to showtime. You never know how uncomfortable someone may turn out to be when you whip out a camera.
The discussion should cover the following:
- What will be done with the footage. Will you share with each other? Will you keep a copy in a safe place? Or better yet delete after watching!
Sex with Emily’s - Dr.Emily Morse said it best:
"Even if you are totally in love with your partner and you think they’d never do anything to hurt you, a bad breakup can make the loveliest person go completely insane. The lesson here: if you both agree to delete the video after you watch it, you’re good to go! Press record, have sex, watch, delete, and repeat."
So if you’ve covered all of the above… Now it’s time to make a movie!
Emily laced the world with bomb tips for best production quality, because if you’re going to do it, do it well!
She basically says for the fire sex tape you need the 3 L’s
I say natural lightning is always best, but just make sure you have lighting where it’s needed.
Yes yes yes! I’m all about lingerie… Recording or not just wearing it always makes for a good time and an even better sex tape!
Don’t get shy now that there’s a camera involved. Tap into your inner porn star and. let go, enjoy it the moment like there is no camera around!
You can read Emily’s description of the 3 L’s here:
It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to make a sex tape happen, but I want you to make it amazing……….. and then show me……I won’t judge. Constructive criticism only *ipromise*!